What is the Difference Between New Age and New Thought?

New Age and New Thought are two movements that have inspired countless individuals on their spiritual and healing journeys. Many people seem to confuse the two or believe them to be the same.  While they share similarities, they are actually quite different.  Understanding their differences can deepen our appreciation for each path.

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6 Ways for Empaths to Protect Their Energy

Empaths have a remarkable gift, the ability to deeply feel and understand the emotions of others. This can be very helpful for those of us working with healing arts.  However, this gift often comes with challenges. We can easily become overwhelmed by the energies around us, leading to exhaustion, anxiety, emotional burnout, and just an overall yucky feeling. Here are some suggestions for protecting your energy. 

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I Don’t Practice Self-Reiki Daily

I love Pamela Miles and respect her commitment to daily self-Reiki and the way she leads and encourages other Reiki Masters to do the same.  I think it is wonderful and know how beneficial it can be.  I want to share a secret with you though…I don’t practice self-Reiki every day. 

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What Can We do to Help Ukraine?

I know what is happening and I don’t deny the reality of it. I don’t try to pretend it isn’t real or try to put a positive spin about lessons being learned on it. It is a horrible reality. I have committed to making financial contributions to Save the Children Ukraine. Beyond giving financially though, my contributions are limited to what I can give energetically.

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3 Tips for Raising Your Vibrational Frequency

When we feel good, we are vibrating at a higher frequency and attracting good, higher frequency experiences. When we feel badly, we are vibrating at a lower frequency and will attract less pleasant, lower frequency experiences. Following are some tips for staying at a higher frequency vibration.

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5 Questions to Ask Your Reiki Practitioner

In recent years Reiki has grown quite a bit in popularity.  More and more people are looking for alternative ways to care for themselves and invite healing to their lives. 

As Reiki grows in popularity, the number of professional practitioners continues to grow, as well.  How does one choose a Reiki practitioner out of the many that are now available?  The following questions can help you determine if a Reiki Practitioner is right for you.

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Holding Space to Heal

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For a long time, I was confused about exactly what it meant to hold space for another person.  As a healer, though, this is essential to what I do.  I hold a space for others to heal themselves.  But what does that really mean?

To me, to hold space means holding the whole, healthy, and perfect image of the person I wish to bring healing to.  Our intentions, our beliefs, are what bring about our healing.  It is hard for someone who is suffering to believe that they are whole, healthy, and perfect and that life is good and full of abundance.  The more a person is suffering, the harder it becomes for them to hold that belief that will bring them healing.  So, I hold it for them.  I hold a space for healing, while they feel and go through whatever they need to feel and go through.

I have gotten really good at holding space for friends, clients, and strangers.  I am still learning to hold space for myself and the people closest to me.  It is harder for me to detach from my own suffering or those that love.  Little by little, I am getting there, at the time of this writing, however, I am still only able to hold on to it for moment at a time.  That is okay though, I have a community I can turn to.

When I am too close the situation and unable to detach and hold that space of perfect wholeness and health for the people I love so much, it used to bring me great frustration that ultimately brought down my own vibrations and just made everything worse.  I have learned to let go of the need to do it on my own though.  I can practice detachment at my own pace and trust others to hold space for me and my family when needed.  I know I can ask my community and my church and people will hold space for me.  This is one of the great benefits of our universal connection with life. 

We are never alone in anything.  Remembering our perfection is what brings us healing, but when we cannot remember, others can remember it for us.  We can do the same for them.  This is all that ever happens in healing, really.  Someone must hold space for healing by holding the image of health in their thoughts and emotions. 

Is Low Vibrational Energy Taking Over Your Space?

Have you ever walked into a space and it just felt bad or yucky to you? Maybe it felt heavy, dense, or dark. Maybe it just gave you an uneasy or anxious feeling, or perhaps it made you feel a bit queasy. If so, you aren’t alone. What you were feeling was the reaction of your energetic and physical body to the build-up of old energy within the space.

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Energetic Properties of Amethyst

Amethyst soothes emotional pain.  By helping to ease and release anger, rage, grief, and fear it assists with healing from past abuse or trauma.  It also eases the insomnia, nightmares and night terrors that often accompany such trauma.  Amethyst can increase feelings of love, peacefulness, serenity and encourage selflessness…

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Choosing Crystals for Crystal Energy Work

I use a lot of intuition when choosing crystals for myself or my clients, but I don’t depend on intuition alone.  I know about the energetic properties of the stones I use in my practice and I keep those in mind when choosing the crystals I want to work with.  It has taken a lot of time and research to familiarize myself with the many stones I use regularly. 

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Fear of the Highest Good and What Can Trigger It

I had someone reach out to me wanting Reiki sent to a specific situation for a specific outcome.  I told them I would send Reiki for their highest good and that of the situation.  They asked me not to do this and expressed fear of their highest good.  At first this may seem a strange fear, but it is not an uncommon one. 

There are three common reasons this fear of a person’s highest good may manifest.  One is that they do not believe they deserve to experience good things.  If a person believes that they do not deserve the very best in life, they may fear that their highest good isn’t going to be very enjoyable.  There may be a sense of wanting to set low expectations so as not to be disappointed.  This is belief of not deserving good things is a faulty belief that will keep a person out of alignment with their higher-self and block their highest good.  Reiki may relieve the block temporarily, but in order to facilitate lasting change, the person will need to recognize their true worthiness.  Raising their confidence and level of self-love will be necessary. 

Another reason one may fear aligning with their highest good is a belief that it means being the best version of themselves and that maybe the best version of themselves will not be the most fun or enjoyable version.  They may fear the responsibility of always having to be the best they can be.  They may need help to realize that being in alignment with our highest good will always feel good.  They need to know that when something is in their highest good, the responsibility will come naturally and feel right to them once they let go of resistance they hold due to faulty beliefs.  They may also need some guidance in discovering what their higher self is trying to tell them, through their emotions, that their highest good is. 

A third reason a fear of one’s highest good may present itself is if, at least on some level, the person knows that what they want is not in their best interest.  This may happen when a person is in a situation that causes a pleasure response but is unhealthy for them.  For example, a drama heavy relationship, drug and alcohol use, or eating junk foods can all have this effect, as well as many other things.  What people need to learn in this situation is that the joy that can result from aligning with their higher good will far outweigh the pleasure they find in these unhealthy things.  Letting go can be hard and painful but is worth the effort. 

Although all of these things must be overcome in order to come into alignment with one’s greatest good, that can only happen if they are ready.  In a healing practice, there may be times that we will work with people who are struggling with these sorts of faulty beliefs.  Although we may recognize them, it is good to try to guide those struggling to their own conclusion of where this fear of the highest good is coming from and how they can best overcome it while supporting them with Reiki and love. 

3 Factors that Can Affect the Benefits of Reiki

Reiki can induce relaxation and reduce stress.  It can cleanse and balance the energy body.  Reiki can clear toxins, strengthen the immune system and relieve pain and symptoms of illness.  It can release blocked and suppressed emotions and ease depression and anxiety.  It can increase energy levels, positive thinking and optimism.  Reiki can enhance personal awareness and creativity.  It can aid in solving problems, resolving conflict, and manifesting dreams.  It can bring peace and contentment. 

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Why Do I Still Feel Pain if Reiki is Working?

Just because Reiki does not always take away our aches and pains or prevent our illnesses, doesn’t mean it is not working and bringing healing to our lives.  When you look for evidence of Reiki’s benefits for you, don’t focus on what is still bothering you, but rather look for what is going right.  Maybe your back is still hurting, but you are able to sleep more soundly; or your migraine didn’t go away, but some old emotional wound that may have contributed to it is a little less painful and easier to accept.  Your body may not be perfectly restored, but your soul is healing. 

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Reiki, the Angels, and Our Guides

Many Reiki practitioners feel guided to other metaphysical studies, such as angel healing and spirit guides.  Either the studies led them to Reiki, or Reiki opened their interests to such things and drove them to want to learn and explore more.  They often incorporate what resonates with them into their lives and Reiki practice.  It seems to come naturally to many of us, one modality or belief system flowing into and with another. 

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Why I Charge for Reiki

Charging for Reiki is one of those controversial things that each practitioner will have to form their own opinion on.  On one side of the argument you have those who feel Reiki should always be given free of charge as it comes from energy that the Universe has provided for us all.  On the other, there are those who believe it should never be given away free.

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Reiki Healing for Domestic Abuse

I’d like to ask you to join me in this mission to help empower victims and help them to understand that it is not okay, it’s not their fault, and they don’t deserve it.  I ask you to use whatever tools you choose to direct positive intention and energy at this problem.  If you practice Reiki, I ask that you write the situation of domestic violence on paper and hold the paper between your hands and give it Reiki or send the situation distance healing. 

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1 Way to Tell if You Are Meant to Be a Healer

As a Reiki Master, part of my job is to train others in Reiki.  I want to help fellow Masters spread this wonderful modality throughout the world.  I want to help people discover Reiki and what it can do for them.  In my endeavor to reach students, I asked myself what it means to be a healer and what clues are there to let a person know if it is the right path for them. 

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Reiki Explained: What It is and What It is Not

Reiki has become a fairly common practice in many parts of the Western World.  There are still places, however, where it is largely unknown.  In the Midwestern United States, many people have never even heard of Reiki, let alone have any idea what it is.  As a Reiki practitioner in Missouri, I often have to explain to people exactly what it is I do and answer the question; what is Reiki?

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You Have the Power to Heal Yourself

Life force energy surrounds and permeates all things.  This is the premise of any energy healing system.  This truth is what makes it all work.  And since life force energy is everywhere, it is freely available to us all.  You don’t have to be trained or attuned in any particular system in order to have access to this energy. 

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