Attunement to 1st Degree Reiki is the first step on the journey towards becoming a Reiki practitioner, and it can be a very exciting time for a child who has just received this attunement. However, it can also be overwhelming, especially if the child is not sure what to do next. I want to share with you some tips for supporting a child who has just been attuned to 1st Degree Reiki, so that they can have fun with and explore this amazing healing art.
Read moreDrifting Off Course
Drifting, as I understand it, is what happens when we just let life move us around and direct us instead of taking control and directing life. It is what happens when we live life by habit, just thinking the same thoughts and taking the same actions without conscious direction. Drifting leads to stagnation, or worse, backsliding into further unconsciousness.
Read more52 Weeks of Self-Care Challenges for Tweens, Teens, and Families
I have created a list of 52 different self-care challenges for you to work on this year. You can do them on your own or with your family. These challenges are meant to introduce different forms of self-care for your exploration. If you feel a challenge makes your life happier, try to keep up with the activity even after the week has ended. If you don’t feel you have gotten value from the activity, you can let it go and focus on the next challenge. You may want to revisit it again in the future to see if your feelings about it change.
Read moreChanges Coming to Crystal Reiki Wellness
I have re-examined my business plan and made some changes to simplify things in a way that I believe will be easier to balance with the rest of my life going forward. I will be rolling out the following changes throughout the next month or so.
Read moreMindful Family Walks
Children are by nature very busy and often distracted. Stillness can be hard for them to attain. I find my children do better with moving meditations. I try to guide them in mindful walking by speaking out loud what I am noticing and asking them questions.
Read moreJust for Today, it is Okay to Reprioritize
Just for today, living honorably means acknowledging that priorities have changed for the time being. It means forgiving myself when business gets put off and the house becomes a mess. It means being grateful for the opportunity to spend my days with my children and sharing this unplanned and unexpected experience with them.
Read moreWhen Challenges Arise, do not Worry, Grow
We are suddenly being faced with some really big changes. I cannot deny that I felt the heaviness of change and uncertainty and a lot of pressure to find my family a new home and get us packed and moved in such a short time. I feel the pressure, but I do not worry.
Read morePrioritizing Family Healing
I took some time to think about it and realized I have treated children professionally more in the last couple of months than I had my own children. I took for granted they would ask if they wanted me to work with them or that they would practice on their own as long as I set an example and they were regularly exposed to my personal practice. I have been so busy managing my business, supervising virtual schooling, and running the household, that I had not realized the poor condition of my family’s energetic health. Not only my children need healing, but my life partner, as well. Now I know, I have to reprioritize and find a better way.
Read moreTips to Restore Family Peace During Isolation by Guest Author Emma Grace Brown
Emma Grace Brown lives her life by her rules; and it works! When she's not snuggling puppies, Emma promotes female empowerment through her website. Her mission is to help those who live with self-doubt to realize they don't have to mold themselves to conventionality. Learn more about her and check out more of her work at www.emmagracebrown.com.
Have you ever felt like you’ve had it all together, then BAM, some outside force comes along and throws life off balance? We’ve all been there, but going through a pandemic is a whole new source of stress for everyone. Between schedule changes, remote work, and having to self-isolate, balance seems elusive these days, and the consequence is an increase in stress and discord.
Don’t Let Self-Care Slide
The stress of self-isolation comes at us from many angles. We’re trying to keep up with work, school, and hobbies - all while our family members are doing the same things in the same space. The result is that many people feel like they can’t accomplish it all, and unfortunately, self-care is often the first thing they sacrifice.
Stay Physically Active
Sacrificing self-care is a huge mistake because these practices are your best defense against stress. Instead of letting basic self-care habits slide, make it a priority to find solutions to whatever challenges are standing in the way. One perfect example is the need for exercise. According to The Mayo Clinic, exercise releases endorphins, those chemicals in the brain that make us happy. But it isn’t always easy to stay active at home, especially with multiple family members competing for space.
In this situation, consider trying something new, such as cycling. Cycling is one of the best full body workouts, plus it’s inherently calming and meditative. Getting into biking doesn’t have to be expensive either. There are lots of affordable bicycles that are still top quality, like the Schwinn Volare 1200 men’s road bike, or the Mongoose Dolomite Fat Tire mountain bike for someone who prefers to hit the trails. Or if you have even a small space indoors, you could get an affordable stationary bike, like the ProGear 225 Folding Magnetic Upright Exercise Bike With Heart Pulse.
Adequate Quantity and Quality Slumber
Trying a new exercise is just one example of how we can troubleshoot healthy habits that seem harder to accomplish these days. Another common issue people are dealing with is lack of sleep, and this one impacts children as well as adults. Part of the problem is that stress is often a factor that stands in the way of quality sleep, while lack of sleep perpetuates the issues by making stress worse.
If your children are experiencing this cycle of restless sleep and stress, consider a conversation that may help you intervene. You might want to determine whether you have a relaxing bedtime routine or whether your child’s sleep is interrupted by distractions, such as too many stuffed animals for little ones or your teen taking their phone to bed. Even if the problem seems insurmountable, by asking yourself these questions, you may find that it just requires a few easy solutions.
Try New Boredom Busters
Self-care goes a long way towards helping us all feel like ourselves again, but it won’t do away with the situations that lead to stress. That’s why it’s a good idea to find boredom busters that will help alleviate some of those challenging situations. If you have children who are struggling with being stuck at home, you may want to look into the best devices for your child’s age. There is everything from fitness trackers to age-appropriate smartphones available these days, and a little research can go a long way.
Remember that we could all use some positive distractions these days - not just kids. Every generation, from youngsters to seniors, is affected by the struggle to make life fulfilling when we can’t get out of the home. You could always take up a new hobby, but as CNBC explains, all you really need is simple, relaxing activities, like going for a walk or practicing yoga. And don’t hesitate to connect with Crystal Reiki Wellness for energetic space clearing, reiki sessions, and more self-care services.
Now that self-isolation is our current reality, we’re all trying to carry on with life the best we can. That means letting go of what we can’t control, while making adjustments where we can. This is the best way to achieve a new balance in life - a balance that helps bring your whole household back into better harmony.
Using Reiki to be at Granny’s Deathbed
I used Reiki to connect with my family in my grandmother’s hospital room. I sat quietly in the space I use for meditation. I took a few deep breaths and got myself centers. Then I used the Reiki symbols taught in Second Degree Reiki to make a distance connection in the same way I would for a distance healing. I opened my heart to my loved ones and entered a space of non-duality.
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